I have a reputation about being a networker. And that is based on years of networking.
Often going to events when I was pressed for time and had the pressure of chasing money and I didn’t want to go.
Networking is a marathon money chase and certainly not a sprint.
It takes time when you mind can be telling you that you don’t have time.
We all know that our minds aren’t right.
I have spoken on networking to companies and organizations across the country.
There is a litany of groups. AAF, AMA, PRSA, IABC, BDAOC, BMA. You get the picture.
I have been networking for a long time. Long before the great recession started and everybody started networking.
Meetings could have had a hundred attendees.
Now I don’t think people network as often because they think the present economy and low unemployment will last forever. Forever is a long time I have learned.
I know when a networking meeting is doing to be a dud because the person I am meeting with isn’t prepared. They have no pen, no pad or devise to take notes and follow up. They are basically networking clueless.
I ask them if they have been to my site and they say briefly. That is a euphemism for no.
I immediately know that it is going to be a one way street. The person just wants me to help them.
When they ask me who are some of my clients I know that is code for can I sell their stuff to my clients.
Networking isn’t about just showing up. You have to be prepared.
Prior to the meeting you should look the person up on Linkedin. You should connect with them.
You should also view their Linkedin profile and read it prior to your networking meeting.
Look for common touch points that establish a quick bond. A school on the other side of the country, athletic interest or languages spoken.
Human interest is a lot more important than where people worked.
The more you share of your story the stronger your connection will be and the more inclined that person will be to spread your reputation.
You should think of people you can connect them with. In networking there are meetings with people and meetings with connectors. Connectors come with suggestions of places to go and people to meet. You can easily recognize a connector. They lead your down many roads and take you to new places.
The other mistake that people make in networking is not following up.
I was talking to an old client today who found himself in transition. He said that one of his key learnings was that you had to respond that day.
Otherwise the cards pile up and the energy of that networking event disappears.
If you don’t follow up the meeting is basically a waste because you haven’t established a platform for mutual help and connecting.
In business these days if you just show up for a meeting you will probably be toast.
In networking if you just show up you might not be toast but you will be nothing more than pablum.
Hi Hank,
Great points. You sound like a man who has networking down pat – even to the point of sending me your blog. You add real value to social networking and I hope that our paths cross at some point.
Networking also is a 2-way street. If someone can’t help you, perhaps you can help them. However, if there’s no spark in the exchange of ideas and interests, and no connection, it’s probably best to move on.
P.S. You must be in another country, it’s still April 2 here-EST.
Thanks for this. I live in CA so maybe my wordpress clock is off?
Thanks for your comment. I am always interested in new places to speak on Networking Your Way to New Business if you have any thoughts in that area. Have spoken to companies and organizations across the country.
I had the privilege of meeting and interacting with Hank on numerous occasions and I also heard him speak obout networking and I have to confess that I learned something new every time I attended his speeches. Grear value! Thank you, Hank!
Hank
True just showing up at a meeting not knowing who you are meeting and what they do would absolutely make no sense, the whole purpose of networking is defeated. but you are right so many people just show up at a meeting to talk about themselves and expect things will just click from there.
Some homework on the group members definitely helps.
Thanks for being candid and sharing your thoughts, I sure would like to attend one of your speeches.
Zarine
Thanks Zarine. Speaking next in Houston so that probably won’t work.
Hank, you have great advice. You have inspired me to write a blog of my own on English. Everyone mixes past, present and future tense. Spelling is backwards, not to mention non-use of pronouns, punctuation, etc. It is widley accepted, as not one of us has any time to kill, but it still bothers me. People, please proof’read, thank you! But back to this being about you:) Totally awesome blog, I can’t wait to hear your seminar, I’ll have my pen and paper in hand!
Hank – Great advice to learn and live by; and easy to follow! I see you have published several books that appear to be essential resources in networking. Thank you for the information!
Hank – you and I have met a few times – fortunately for our one-on-one meeting, I had a pen and paper and had even reviewed and printed out your LinkedIn profile beforehand….
I want to commend you publicly – you did offer more introductions and follow-up than I did, and you followed through with them all. I’m still working on mine (no, really I am). Thank you!
Richard
This is great info. Re-posted to my FB page. I’m trying to get my clients into the habit of making sure that they have networking at the top of their person to person marketing plan. Thanks as always, for great reading.